Division and Equalization of Property in Barrie Ontario

Property Division in OntarioThe division of property after separation raises many questions: How is it divided? Do we have to sell the house? Do I have to share my pension? What about my inheritance? 

The uncertainty leads to many sleepless nights. Everyone fears they will end up with nothing. The classic country song by Jerry Reid comes to mind for many: "She Got the Gold Mine, I Got the Shaft".(Women may insert "He" instead of "She" in the title and lyrics. The fear is the same for both genders.)

In Ontario, some of the uncertainty is eliminated by the Family Law Act which describes a formula so both you and your spouse end up with about the same net property. It looks like this:

+ Add up your assets on the date of separation

- Subtract your debts on the date of separation

Subtract any gifts from third parties, inheritances or proceeds from a personal injury claim received during the marriage which were kept separate and are still in existence on the date of separation

Subtract your assets less any debt you had on the date of marriage.

The resulting number is called your Net Family Property (NFP). Your spouse does the same calculation.

÷ 2  If your NFP number is higher than your spouse’s NFP number, you owe half the difference so as to make the NFP's equal.

Here is an example:

ASSETS ON DATE OF SEPARATION HUSBAND WIFE
Home (Jointly Owned) worth $240,000 $120,000 $120,000
Cars (Fair Market Value) $20,000 $12,000
Pensions $60,000 NIL
RRSP (deduct 25% for taxes) $10,000 $45,000
Snowmobiles (Fair Market Value) $5,000 NIL
Total A $215,000 $177,000
     
DEBTS ON DATE OF SEPARATION HUSBAND WIFE
Mortgage $80,000 $80,000
Visa $10,000 $7,000
Car Loan $8,000 NIL
Total B $98,000 $87,000
     
GIFTS, INHERITANCES, PERSONAL INJURY CLAIMS HUSBAND WIFE
Snowmobile - Gift From Parents $5000 NIL
Total C    
ASSETS LESS DEBT ON DATE OF MARRIAGE HUSBAND WIFE
Pension $15,000 NIL
RRSP NIL $5,000
Car $3,000 $4,000
Car Loan NIL ($2,000)
Total D $18,000 $7,000

To Summarize:

  HUSBAND WIFE
Total A (Assets) $215,000 $177,000
Minus Total B (Debt) ($98,000) ($87,000)
Minus Total C (Gifts, Etc) ($5,000) NIL
Minus Total D (D of M) ($18,000) ($7,000)
Net Family Property $94,000 $83,000

DIFFERENCE $94,000 - $83,000 = $11,000

EQUALIZATION OWED BY HUSBAND TO WIFE IS $5,500.00!

Once the Husband pays the Wife $5,500.00, each will have $88,500.

The Home: In this example, the home is jointly owned. If the Husband wants to purchase the Wife’s interest in the home, he would have to pay his Wife the equalization of $5,500 plus pay her for her one half interest in the home. This is calculated as $120,000 minus the mortgage of $80,000 equals $40,000. So, the Husband would have to pay the Wife $40,000 plus $5,500 for a total of $45,500. The Husband would then own the house solely and paid out his Wife. Alternatively, the house could be sold and sale proceeds divided or the Wife could buy out the Husband's interest. 

Ownership: You and your spouse keep the assets and debts in your own names. So, all we deal with in Ontario is the value of the various assets and debts. You don't have an ownership interest in your spouse's pension or other assets. Just a potential right to an equalization payment if they have more stuff (a larger NFP number) than you. 

Household Contents: If you want help dividing up the furniture and other items in the home, here is a blog about it. 

Adjustments: You may wish to to adjust the assets or debts so as to equalize the NFP numbers and avoid an equalization payment. So, in this example, the Husband might give his Wife some of his assets or take on some of her debt so there is no equalization payment owed. 

Excluded Property: An inheritance, a gift from a third party or a payment for a personal injury which is received during the marriage is not shared. If it was used to pay joint debts or invested into a jointly owned asset or is spent, it cannot be deducted. 

Equalization of property in Ontario

Debts: I often hear complaints from clients about having to take into consideration debts incurred by their spouse without their consent or knowledge. It is very frustrating. The law says that the reason debts were incurred does not matter except if it was for an illegal purpose. Your debts (meaning the ones in your name) are yours and your spouse’s debts remain your spouse’s debts, and jointly owed debts are shared. But everything is balanced out by the equalization process. If you have more debts than your spouse, your spouse may have to make an equalization payment to balance everything out.

Whole Picture: Some clients get confused because they want to equalize each asset or each debt one at a time. You have to look at the whole picture, using the formula above, and not look at individual assets or debts.

Unequal Equalizations: In rare cases, it is possible to ask for an “unequal equalization” if ordering an equalization payment according to the normal formula would be “unconscionable”. Our lawyers can help you determine if your case would be an exception to the general rule.

We have seen many people get the equalization calculation wrong, including other lawyers. Our lawyers only do family law and work with equalization calculations every day. We can help you get it right.

Case Study: If you are interested in reading how a typical case is resolved, read this article. 

Personal Insights: When I went through my own divorce (yes, divorce lawyers can get divorced... just like doctors can get sick), I learned some personal lessons. Here they are.

Perhaps Jerry Reid wasn't living in Ontario when he wrote the lyrics to his famous and hilarious song: 

Well, she got the gold mine!
I got the shaft.
They split it all down the middle,
And then they give her the better half.
Well, I guess it all sounds funny,
Hoo, hoo, hoo, ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!
But it hurts too much to laugh.
She got the gold mine - I got the sha-a-aft.

... or maybe he just retained the wrong law firm! 

How a Barrie Divorce Lawyer Divides Up The Household Contents

Household contents fighing over a roller pinHave you ever fallen in love with something only to have it break, get lost or stolen? Maybe it was a special coffee mug, a favorite blanket or a stuffed toy. Gone forever.

I remember having an emotional attachment to special belt buckle. When it was lost, I was at first angry and then I almost cried. Eventually I felt silly for becoming so attached to a "thing".

In hindsight,  I now realize that it wasn't the belt buckle that was special but rather it was the memories it represented.

It was the first buckle I ever won showing horses. It represented hours of hard work and dedication to achieve a goal. As a teenager, it was very special to me.

The division of household contents is often a contentious issue when clients are separating or divorcing. Normally clients lament the cost of replacing items but, in most cases, if you drill deep enough, it is an emotional loss that fuels the fight. It's not really about "the thing".

For example, spending thousands of dollars on legal fees fighting over a used electric kettle worth $2.00 does not make sense on the basis of the value of the item but if that kettle represents the hopes and dreams of domestic bliss or memories of happier days, its value is priceless.

Perhaps fighting over your kettle is your way to avenge the hurt caused by your spouse. There are many reasons for steamy conversations about a kettle but ask yourself "what is the real issue here?"

I encourage clients when thinking about the division of household contents to ask themselves "In five years, will it matter to me if I have this item or not?"

"Fifteen years from now, will I be proud to tell my grandchildren about how we resolved the division of household contents?"

This helps you make priorities and keep things in perspective. Things of a lesser priority can be bargained away to get things of greater importance. Deals can be made and settlement achieved, cost-effectively.

Jason Brown in his blog at Minnesota Divorce and Family Law Blog has an excellent article in which he lists some great methods for dividing up the household contents. He suggests the following:

* Two Lists: One of you makes two lists of items, of roughly equal value. The lists are presented to the other. The person who didn't draft the lists gets to pick which list they want. There is an incentive for the person drafting to fairly and equitably divide things or they'll get burned during the selection process.


* Silent Auction: This is my favorite. A master list of all of your personal property is created. Each party blindly puts a dollar value next to each item. The high bid takes the item at the value listed. Once all items are bid on, the totals for each party are added up. The party receiving the higher dollar value pays the other a cash equalizer to make up the other's shortfall. Parties are free to place a high value on items they really want, but won't list a ridiculous bid out of fear of paying a large offset.


* Arbitration: An arbitrator is basically a private judge. You pay this person, usually a lawyer, to listen to your side of things in an informal conference setting. Then, your spouse does the same. The arbitrator is given the authority to divide the entire list of items as they deem fair and equitable. Costs are saved because the parties attend the arbitration without counsel and divide the arbitrator's fee. Most couples submit to binding arbitration so that the decision of the arbitrator is final.


* Rotating Lists: Make a master list and take turns going back and fourth until all of the personal property is divided. Flip a coin to see who goes first.

However you divide up your things, remember you won't get everything you want and that's okay.  It just creates the new challenge of finding replacement items for reasonable prices. You can always go to garage sales or look online for bargains at Craigslist or  Kijiji. Shop around. You'll be surprised how little it will cost and how much fun it is to replace those missing items.

In ten years most of the stuff you are arguing about will be safely lodged in a dump somewhere, rotting away to eternity. It really isn't worth the cost or energy to fight over them now.

So save yourself from paying legal fees. Don't fight about your household contents. Just go replace your old junk with other people's old junk... and make them part of your "new home"... a place for "new memories".

... but if you see my belt buckle, shoot me an email. I still miss it!